What does a partnership
look like in marriage today? Do two
people have to be equal to make a marriage work? The text in chapter 4 of ‘Successful
Marriages and Families’ states it so perfectly “Equality is all too often used
to mean “identity”; that is, that two equal things must be identical to each
other. Such usage represents a fallen
and harmful understanding of equality that is espoused by Lucifer, who
passionately wants all to be “like himself”.
We see examples
everyday of women wanting to be identical to men. They join the military, they climb the
corporate ladder, they are even in the boxing ring. Why is it that woman today
insist on being just like men? Why do
they not feel confident & worthy enough in their own God given talents and
skills.
The Family Proclamation
states that “Gender is an essential characteristic of individual premortal,
mortal, and eternal identity and purpose. By divine design, fathers are to
preside over their families in live and righteousness and are responsible to provide
the necessities of life and protection for their families. Mothers are
primarily responsible for the nurture of their children. In these sacred responsibilities, fathers and
mothers are obligated to help one another as equal partners”.
Equal does not mean we have
to change to try and keep up with each other.
Equal means we are different in our talents but equal in our
contributions.
Perfectly said by Elder
Joseph B. Wirthlin, “The Lord did not people the earth with a vibrant orchestra
of personalities only to value the piccolos of the world. Every instrument is precious
and adds to the complex beauty of the symphony.
All of Heavenly Father’s children are different in some degree, yet each
has his own beautiful sound that adds depth and richness to the whole”.
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